There are times where we take those around us for granted. Times when we think we can afford to make mistakes, to wrong our loved ones especially ... quite simply because we think they love us too much.
What if that love dies one day ... and the second chances, once abundant run dry. It'll hurt to say 'sorry' to deaf ears and 'I love you's to stoned broken hearts. Living in regret means going on with life ... bearing a tremendous burden, a pain that reaches the inner depth of one's soul.
So we learn from yesterday, work for today and live for tomorrow.
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But if love dies one day??
What is love??We can admire what we see, but we can only love what we truly know..
Love doesn't die.Love should be everlasting no?? Hence the greatest tragedy in life is not death but life without a purpose.Love is a good purpose..But what love??
To live with love is good to live with unconditional love is great.
It does hurt to say those words to deaf ears or not allowed to say it as well.But again..what is right and what is wrong..when it should be unconditional...
So we learn from yesterday, work for today and live for tomorrow.... I like that.... Shall learn to practice it...
Ur entry makes me ponder deep..If I had poetic skills I would have written a poem..lol..Love the pic :)
Hi Adrain, It's me - Anon.
I like what you wrote - profound. and i agree... And for those who are taken for granted by their frens especially - cut your losses, remove the crappy so-called friends from your database and move on.
Less heataches, disappontement, anger, hurt and tears.
Speaking from experience,
Anon
Adrian!!!
Think i better introduce myself, my name's Joanne, we spoke briefly on Sat after Delon's class.
U told me you were going to replace Kevin's class, but it turned out to be someone else!!!! U notti boy!!! Grr....!!!!
My gym mates literally have to drag me in the class!!! Hmph!
So u replacing Kevin at Pavilion today and Wed at Jaya? Will c u there (both places)if you are... :)
Meanwhile, take care.
Sorry, this is the only place i know how to get you - unless you have another email add which you are willing to share with me...
c ya!
Heya Vera,
Words so deep ... leaves so much room for silent solitary wondering. Can't help but think if it's a good thing to let the heart's mind drift and flutter along the meaning of what true love really means simply because some people are confused and are not really ready to accept the reality dealt to us by the world in which we live in today.
Hey Anon,
As we walk the path of life, we're bound to slip and fall along the way. The key point is to learn to pick ourselves up, dust the scrapped knees and continue walking ahead. As long as we learn from past mistakes and not repeat them, heck at least something good came out of that 'fall'. So be proud and walk with your head held high.
Aisey Joanne,
Terribly sorry but I wasn't feeling all too good on Saturday night, hence at the 11th hour, I called Alex C to get me a replacement and I believe Emma did the class no? As for further replacements, haven't got any request yet but today, I'll be doing a class in another gym in Klang. Will catch you soon and pass you my email add k. Till then, kia kaha!!! :)
Hi Adrian! :)
How u doing today, mate??
Heard that Kevin is not teaching tmrw nite at Jaya, hopefully u'll be doing the class then.
Y'day's combat at Pavilion was great but i guess the instructor did her best. Sigh.
Looking forward to a good one tonight with Jon.
Cheers,
Jo
Hey Joanne,
Glad you enjoyed the class yesterday and am sure Jon's class would be great too. :)
Nah ... won't be doing tomorrow's class since it's my mom's bday. Gonna have dinner with the family and all. You peeps have fun k.
:( u won't be coming - how sad....
It's forgiveable I guess, since it's mom's b'day - do wish her happy b'day for me ya :)
Wonder who's gonna do it then, if it's one of the crappy ones, think will lepak at the mamak instead :(
Hi Adrain....
The fren which i wrote off from my database came back - I'm still very unhappy of what he did to me (repeatedly).
Anyways - I have no one to talk to -so I download it over here. Hope u don mind.
I'm still determine to cut off all ties with him... enough is enough.. time to let go and move on...rite?? :(
Hey Anon,
I've always maintained that almost everyone deserves a second chance. But if your 'fren' have repeatedly do you wrong, then perhaps it might be a better idea to cut him off ... for now at least ... or maybe until you're truly ready to forgive and forget. Afterall, there is some truth in the saying that 'time heals everything'.
'Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice, shame on you'
I like your quote very much - how true.
But y do I feel lousy and indecisive? Thought I was strong, thought I could bury the dead and get on with life... guess I'm not that strong after all...
Lousy and indecisive??? ... I think it's because deep down in most of us, there's a li'll niceness inside although sometimes we refuse to acknowledge it. Being nice sometimes gets you hurt ... but more often than not, we tend to want to see the better side of others. I guess the best way to see things for what they truly are is to communicate ... to be direct and demand for answers. That way, there's no more guessing game.
I'm still in a limbo... sian...
Yo Bro,
Heard Kevin has cancelled all his classes nx week - still sakit, kesian kan? Hope he'll get well soon... sob sob...
Do let me know if you're replacing any of his classes ya!
Thks, mate!
Hey Anon,
I know things are usually not as straight forward as we like them to be. Well, perhaps you could take some time and reflect on what ought to be done before taking any action. Cheer up k, at least tomorrow's a holiday. :)
Hiya Joanne,
Will keep you posted if I should be replacing any of Kev's class. I'm sure he'll be alright and will come bouncing back soon enough.
Hi Adrain,
Happy to know that you are taking a break, a well deserved holiday ya :)
After much thought and pondering, I think, as of now, I'm not so keen to rekindle the relationship. R'bering all the hurt and tears that he made me go thru, it is not worth it.
God says forgive your brother, and your Father in Heaven will forgive you...sometimes it is not ez at all eh?
Thks heaps Adrain... Appreciate it.
Hey Anon,
Yea, am back from my hols. I really needed the break.
To forgive and forget is never easy. I guess only time will tell if that's truly something feasible for us to do. I reckon it's best to go with what you think is best for you.
Till then, know that you'll always have your family and friends with you. :)
Have a good day ahead k.
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